Getting back to that Barry Rosner column, I could almost use it for the next Agenda Lies installment, due to the underlying falseness that forms its premise. That falseness can be found in his words here:

“But never, seemingly, is there an actual discussion about the words themselves and why they are hurtful.

The focus is always on the act, the criticism and the contrition.”

That falseness is in believing the focus does NOT belong on the act, or that words used in that act are of any true significance. It is indeed the act of name-calling where the real sin is committed, not in the name used to inflict the harm. One gets the sense that had Ozzie Guillen called the writer a horse’s ass, not only would there have been no story, but not one sports writer would opine on the distress experienced by horses everywhere.

No. Rozner’s column is simply a not-so-veiled defense of deviant sexual behavior and the people who engage in it. He starts from the unsupportable position that states that homosexual behavior is morally benign or morally equal to heterosexual behavior between a man and a woman married to each other. To him, as to other self-deceived people, it is not wrong.

OK. Let’s suppose for a moment that it is not wrong. If that’s the case, then what’s the problem? As I said in the previous post, if someone calls me a “polack”, I can’t and don’t take offense because I don’t find being Polish to be anything to regret in the least. If I’m called a “Jesus freak”, the same applies.

AH! they will respond. But you haven’t been subject to the same evil persecution as homosexuals have! Really? There was a time when polack jokes were all the rage. Along with it came the condescension that would follow being caught in the act of making the average human mistake. “What a polack!”

Not good enough? Doesn’t compare to physical attacks suffered by some homosexuals? Perhaps not. But Christians in many parts of the Middle East are still attacked and killed because of their beliefs. I haven’t been attacked physically, but I’m attacked often on this here blog for expressing traditional and orthodox (not what Alan, Dan, Geoffrey and Feodor regard as orthodox, but ACTUAL orthodoxy) opinions. That makes me a victim in the same way most homosexuals are victims these days. A victim of mere name calling. I can’t tell you how much sleep I’ve lost over such attacks. OK, I can tell you: none.

But that’s all really besides the point. The point is that what Guillen has done is shown a great lack of self-control and poor judgement. And that would be poor judgement in publicly calling another person ANYTHING that isn’t both a truthful description as well as pertinent to whatever discussion was ongoing at the time.

I don’t think Guillen really had the writer’s sexual orientation in mind when he called him a faggot. I don’t think Kobe Bryant had the referee’s orientation in mind when Kobe called him a fag. I don’t think Joakim Noah had the fan’s sexual orientation in mind when he called him a fag. I doubt any of these guys is even aware of the sexual orientation of any of their “victims”.

Rozner sees these situations as opportunities lost for not using them to begin public edification on the horrors of using “anti-gay” slurs. But again, if the behavior is not wrong, then those engaging in it aren’t wrong in their engagements, and using the term can’t be offensive. Go ahead. Call me handsome in a manner meant to disparage me. See how offended I get. Call me a Jesus freak or a polack. I know the terms are meant to be negative and hurtful, but they aren’t if I see nothing wrong with being handsome, Christian or Polish. What I do feel is confusion and a level of pity for the one calling me those names. It’s like trying to kill me with a rub-down and a warm bath. It just won’t hurt me. Nor can it.

What bothers those like Rozner is that people still understand that homosexual behavior is wrong and abnormal. They don’t like people to believe that. And they want people to STOP believing that regardless of whether that belief is truthful or not.

This pants wetting over the use of homosexual related slurs is not much different than the manner in which bullying is being addressed these days. The attention is neither on the bullying or the name-calling, but rather who is being bullied and what slurs are being hurled about. Bullying and harrassments in schools have been going on since there have been schools, but the bullying of homosexual kids (or those believed to be homosexual, or kids who think they’re homosexuals, or kids who are told by adults who should know better that it is OK to accept their homosexual urges as normal). Athletes and coaches have been yelling at refs, fans and sports writers since there have been sports, but somehow it’s not that they lose their self-control that’s the issue, but how their lack of self-control manifests itself.

Why is this? It’s simple. Because those who are so corrupted as to believe that homosexual behavior is something worthy of defense are doing what they demand the rest of us never so much as dare think of doing. They are trying to force their morality down the throat of America.

I guess if Barry Rozner believes that homosexual behavior is worthy of defense, his column is one he had to write. But here’s the real reason why one shouldn’t hurl “anti-gay” slurs at people: if the person isn’t a homosexual, you’re making a horrible slanderous remark. It’s like calling someone a thief if he’s never stolen anything in his life. It’s like calling an honest person a liar. It’s like calling a hard working guy lazy. However, if you call a person a thief because he steals things, you’re simply stating a fact, whether you use the actual word “thief” or any slang alternative. There’s nothing wrong with stating the obvious.